7 Things You Have to Know About Your Man

Have you ever wondered why after a hot date with your love interest he hasn't given you a ring or have left any message in your inbox? Now you're asking yourself, "What have I done wrong? Was I a turn off?" You and your BFF's would then figure out what exactly were the reasons of his distance.

Then comes your ceaseless calls and messages, "What's going on?" You don't have the slightest inkling that making your presence known with your calls and messages only makes matters worst.

There are a lot of things that we have to know about our MAN! I, too, have gone out to several dates until I thought I found Mr. Right only to lose him because back then I was extremely clueless!

I learned a lot from that experience and now in a blissful state with my significant other, I try to remember these few things about MAN that a clueless woman might want to know.

1. In the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus," I do very much agree with what John Gray said that "Men are like rubber bands". They have to spend some time in their caves and figure out what they really want. It is very important for us women to be VERY PATIENT at this time. It doesn't mean that they are having second thoughts about us, but they just have to realize by themselves if they are indeed ready to bring the relationship to the next phase. Giving them space and time is first and foremost the most crucial.

What are you to do then to avoid PARANOIA? Keep yourselves busy by engaging in a new hobby perhaps and make yourselves more interesting, compelling, and attractive. In that way, when they are ready to leave their caves and be back on your toes, they will realize that they indeed have made the right choice of choosing you over others and that they are lucky enough for having been chosen by you.

2. Men want to be respected. A study shows that 80% of men would rather be alone and unloved than be disrespected.

Most women would feel unloved when their man is cold and distant whereas most men would feel unloved when being disrespected. More so, both men and women respond to these circumstances differently. Women respond to being unloved through tears. On the other hand, men respond to these situations through ANGER! When your hubby has uncontrollable temper or is extremely angry, try to figure out whether or not you have disrespected him in any way.

Most men don't like to be disrespected in public places.

3. Don't tell your man what to do as he loves figuring out things by himself. When we say "Let me do that, honey" we are no help at all. Instead, we are giving him the wrong signal. Why? Although we have the sincerest intention to help out, this is seen by him differently. We are unfortunately giving him the notion that we don't trust his capabilities. Instead, show him your support no matter.

4. Show him your support at all times.

Men feel most loved by a woman when she shows him her unconditional support. They don't expect us to do things for them. But when your man knows you believe on what he can do and support his endeavors without any doubt, he will be with you all throughout.


5. Give him your 100% trust!


This probably is the hardest to do since we, women, don't like the thought of being cheated. But there's no harm done when we give him our 100% trust despite of and in spite of. Once our man knows that we trust him unconditionally, he realizes himself that we deserve his trust more than anyone else in the world .

Remember, trust is the most important factor in any relationship.


6. Men put their guards down with the woman they really love.

7. What men want to tell us is that we have to take care of ourselves. Of course, they don't expect us to be size 3 all the time. But they want us to take care of our well-being most importantly.